Save the Dress

Traditionally, all bridesmaids in a wedding wear the exact same dress for a matched, uniform look. The styles and these designs have always varied, but now the traditional hold on this element of weddings seems to be giving. One of the older variations of bridesmaid’s dresses came in the form of “the rainbow.” Popular in the ’80s, brides would pick one style of dress and each bridesmaid would wear the dress in a different color. Though this is rarely seen anymore, brides are giving their friends more leeway in this department.In the last few years we’ve seen more brides choosing a color and cut of a dress and allowing each bridesmaid to choose, with approval, their own dress. For example a bride might specify that they want red, cocktail length dresses and send each girl on her way. One may end up strapless, another halter top, etc. Read the rest of this entry »

A wedding ceremony is one marked by tradition and custom, and many of the century old rituals of a wedding remain unchanged today. However, in recent years we are starting to see a loosening of some of these practices, giving couples more flexibility in planning their big day.One of the most notable changes to wedding tradition has been the finances. Historically, a bride’s family has covered all wedding expenses. However, it has become acceptable for a groom’s family or even the bride and groom themselves to assist in the wedding expenses. If this is the case, etiquette calls for the groom’s family to first offer their financial assistance and not just immediately assume responsibility as this could come across as offensive to the bride’s parents. Read the rest of this entry »